Building a relationship with a stepchild can be a daunting task. My husband was able to build a strong and loving union with my son that has spanned 14 years.
My husband and son met 14 years ago when my son was 2. Kory often says that he fell in love with Casey before he had those same feelings for me. Coming from a blended family himself, Kory made it a priority to make Casey feel loved and valued in our home. He was always genuine with his feelings and attention. He kept discipline to a minimum and concentrated instead on loving guidance. Kory never tried to become another father, but chose instead to assume the role of loving mentor. The respect and devotion they have for one another is envied by many of our friends who are also tackling the challenge of bonding within a blended family. Now that Casey is a young man they have added a new dimension to their relationship. The dynamic of their bond has changed from stepchild/stepparent to loving friends. I have enjoyed watching their devotion to one another blossom and grow. I look forward with anticipation to observe its continued maturation.
