Tired of purchasing ties for the father in your life? Have more than one dad to buy for? Try something different this year when honoring the men in the family.
Father’s day gives every blended family the opportunity to recognize and uplift the patriarch in their life. Whether the “father” in question is referred to as “Dad”, “Papa”, “Daddy”, “step dad” or “step father” is of no consequence. He who works hard to provide for his family and is a positive male role model in the home deserves a day of rest and relaxation. If ideas for gifts have run dry, consider some alternatives to traditional Father’s day gifts.
Understand his limits. Does Dad need a well-deserved break? A mini vacation may be the answer. Choose a destination he has suggested in the past or create a personalized passport to any place he desires. Place the passport in his father’s day card along with a brochure highlighting the area he is to visit and enough cash for spending money.
Recognize his hobbies. What does the father in your life enjoy doing? Will a new set of golf clubs or a fishing pole tickle his fancy? How about camping equipment, the latest video games or a tennis racket?
Address his needs. Could your stepfather use some new running shoes? How about a wardrobe makeover? Although is not recommended that you purchase clothing for others unless you are well versed in the tastes and sizes of the recipient, in lieu of shopping for Dad you can offer him a gift certificate to his favorite clothing store.
Pimp his ride. What is the condition of Dad's car? Could it use some new seat covers or floor mats? How about getting it detailed? Everyone loves a car that looks and smells as good as new.
Tantalize his taste buds. A large household rarely has time to cater to the culinary preferences of individuals. Spend the day preparing all of Dad’s favorite meals to show him how much he means to everyone. Start with breakfast and end with the evening meal. Do not forget to close the day with his favorite beverage accompanied by a dessert that he will not soon forget!
Hire someone to take care of his household responsibilities. Time is short when someone works full time outside of the home. Most fathers would rather spend what little time they have available with their children and their wives instead of doing household chores. Consider paying someone to take over his chores for the year. If money is a problem and the children are old enough, enlist them to take on some of his work. The entire family will benefit from having more time with dad throughout the year.
Parents and stepparents alike work hard to nurture their family. Taking one day a year to thank them for their commitment helps renew their spirit, strengthens their resolve and encourages familial bonding. Share how your family celebrates Fathers Day in our discussion forum, where comments, questions and suggestions are always welcome!
